Archive for February, 2010

First year celebration – 12 month of Edie’s life

1st year, 365 days, 8760 hours, 525600 minutes………

That is the count down of one year life and believe me in the early age of our life this is one of the most exciting time with highest speed of development.

For me it is just like yesterday when Edie was born and I hold his little shaking and very fragile body in my arms. It is just like yesterday when I welcomed him in this world.

He was born in the Czech Republic, but his life is already connected with three continents. Because half of his prenatal age he spend with me in Thailand, after he spend 6 month is Czech and than he moved with us to Venezuela (Latin America). I would love to have his childhood also, believe me. It is colorful, adventurous and diverse.

But let me tell you what is new in his life and how we were celebrating his Bdays.

  • Edie has now 77 cm and 9 Kg
  • He is receiving mother milk only in the morning. I still keep this beautiful moment for us and hopefully I will be still able to breastfeed him for some time. Although my lactancy  decreased a lot so lets see. During the day he is eating what we are eating. He has days when he eats a lot and then he is something like “poo machine”. His “outs” are more than his “ins”. But he eats about 6 times per day. Breakfast (oatmeal, or arepa, or bread with cheese, tomato or fruits), snack (creckers, fruits), lunch (all what we have), snack (fruit), snack (joghurt or compotas), dinner (some creamy soup or puree). He drinks mainly water, but also he is trying everything what we drink (natural juices, milk, flavored water – just a little I do not like to give him sweets).
  • He sleeps very well at night. He had his routine. At 7pm dinner, around 8 pm bathing and after we just put him to his bead. I sing a song and he falls a sleep. The time of carrying is over. He is just waking up because he is thirsty. Especially here in Venezuela is now very hot (more than 30 C) so he is asking for water. He drinks and falls a sleep again. He wakes up at 5 am and then I take him and let him drink milk and be cuddling with me in the bed.
  • He loves to play – there is no change and now we started to go to baby gym. He loves to spend time with other kids so I try to be out with him as much as possible. He also loves water and on the beach he spends most of his time playing in the sand. He likes his texture and taste. He is able to play nicely on xylophone, he is able to twang the strings of guitar. He loves music and now he is always swinging his body into rhythm of music. It is fun to see him dance. He tries to draw with crayons, but he is eating them too so I have to control him while doing art stuff. He loves to put tops and closures to different boxes, bottles and everything what has some top. I let him. He loves to take things off the box and put them back (this is the good part). He is rather organized. And he loves to play “hide and seek”.
  • His motorical skills are improving. He is drinking from his bottle with holders on his own, he tries to feed himself alone. But i have to help him to pass the spoon to his mouth. He tries to drink form glass (but mostly he is so far blowing in than drinking) and from bottle. He likes to play with cutlery, and any kids of things which are given to his hands. He is trying how the things works.
  • He is able to stand up on his own, to slide down from the bed and stairs, he is walking around the things by holding them and with support he is trying to walk as much as possible.
  • He is very social. But very attached to me as mom. Not so many people can carry him and for long time. Even he does not want to go to hands of his dad, grandma or Sandy. He is holding me tight most of the time somebody else wants to take him. So I became his personal carrier and believe me or not “he is heavy” so my back suffers a bit. But I consider it like a training. Because when I feel his little hand holding my arms I forget every pain for this feeling. He loves to greet people. He is waving on the streets to people which give him back smile. And he is flirting with nice girls on the streets and when they smile at him he became shy and hide his face on my chest. It is such  a cute moment.
  • He is very sharing person. When he eats or chew something what he likes he always offer the things to others to eat or chew with him.
  • He is not talking. Although he is trying. Sometimes we are guessing that he said something in some language. But he is saying still mamma, memme (this means all other things, thirst, hunger). He is “juuuud and wowed” by things. I heard him to say baf like a dog and huiiiii like horns of the police car.
  • He is learning fast. I am giving him about month to learn how to walk. Lets see his improvements.
  • Edie is wonderful child, sometimes crying too much but it is just because he want to go out or to do things on his own and I do not let him. I strongly believe that I have to show him already now where are limits for his behavior otherwise he will be abusing our benevolence and liberty. He understand perfectly the word and meaning of “NO” but depends only on his  mood  if he wants to follow or not. We just have to be consistent.

Now it is a time for his cake and typical Venezuelan B-day song;



And some other random pictures for his one year picture gallery

Whatever you do may seem insignificant to you, but it is most important that you do it.

Mohandas Gandhi

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First steps and slides of Edie

First steps and slides

I love this life proven joke, you have to know it also:

2 years you are teaching your child eat, walk, talk and do things on his own and then you are trying even harder another  16 years to make him sit and shut up!

And because we are exactly in the phase 1 I would love to show you first steps of Edie. I know he is walking with my help but if you would be with my son as much as I am then you would celebrate it too. I have still in my head this little angel which was not able to even turn and then it happened and since that time he fall down form the bed many time :)

Now he is already in the stage when he is trying to stand up on his own and he learned how to slide on his belly down from our bed (14. 2. 2010 exactly on St. Valentines day). In the first moment we were so happy about his improvements but immediately after that we realized how easily he can reach higher places and new things and happiness was over :)

Few minutes of fame were over…………but isn’t it great how fast is he improving and growing?

Look at him, how lovely shaking and unstable he is :)

Edie’s first stand ups trials

Walking with mom’s support

And more improvements is coming every day. With child the live is never boring!

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Parenting reflexion – how was the first year of experience

Emotions, learning, exploring

Emotions – whole year and even prenatal time was full of emotions. Everything what was happening was so new, so exciting and unique. You can not repeat this time again and I definitely felt so many new feeling which without Edie I would not have had opportunity to live it. Since he was born my life totally changed. I am not anymore alone in this world and I have to take care 24/7 about little man. Before I had Edie I was thinking how I would be able to take care of somebody if I am able to make dry every flower and able to forget to feed my fish for few days……but yeah. I have learned very fast and every day is now different and full of changes. My biggest emotions came with particular things. I have been crying when Edie was, I was laughing when Edie was.  Surprisingly he is the only person which is able to make me drive crazy. I am very calm person but when he starts to cry because of ony reason, believe me I am becoming crazy. Kids are the best teachers of patience, tolerance and love.

Learning – this is such a simple and basic thing I am doing on everyday basis. Since Edie was born there was nearly any activity repeated. He is developing very fast and I am practically pushed without any previous notice and explanation to keep learning and catching his development pace. It is not easy because kids do not ask for permitions. They are just here waiting what we as parents can offer them. Edie is challenging me every day. He is looking for new things, new activities and I am here for him, exploring our mutual road of learning. I have learned a lot from him. I started to play guitar, because he like music. I am able to perform most of the daily activities only with one hand (cooking, cleaning our flat, going on toilet – bit challenge, etc.) because in the other I am holding him. I have learned also how to rest fast and effectively together with him. I have learned what makes him laugh, cry, happy, entertained, bored. I think that I have learned many things about parenting too. I have been asking many mothers and fathers around for advices, discussing with many parents around in Venezuela. Challenging them and myself in good will of giving my son as much as possible. Learning process consist for me of 80% observation, studying, open mind, absorbing, feeling and 20% performing, applying what I have learned and improving what have been done before.

Exploring – that is exactly the biggest part of being parent and having your child. I have never thought how many things are needed since early beginning and probably nobody will know it till you do not became parent. The parenthood as itself is the unknown journey. Your boat is sailing to the future with good will of raising Good Person. You have a goal but nobody can tell you how to reach this goal. Nobody have thought us in the schools the most basic things such as “to be parent”. We are bearing the biggest responsibility on our shoulders and especially in the beginning you have no idea how the things will work, you have some ruff idea what you are supposed to do. You just go ahead and keep exploring even you have no idea where the wild water of life will take you. Exploring is not scaring it is just widening your horizons and enriching your life.

So if we count all pluses and minuses to have a baby is big Gain. Your life obtained big motivation to do things. Your life is enriched by special family spirit which you can keep growing.

Into my hands was given the biggest gift in my life and it is life of the another person!

There is nothing more beautiful and challenging and worth to being loved than is your child. Because it is your love, it is your heart and it is your life!


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Jamie Oliver carries his mission for healthy food for our kids

Healthy food means healthy life

You will not believe me but I always loved to cook and prepare different culinary specialties. I was always “watching under the hands” of my foreign friends and learning “by doing” different recipe.

All this years of cooking, experimenting resulted into the simple result that when I gave a birth to my son and he became 6 month olds I started to cook for him different dishes. I have never thought that I would be feeding him by junk food such as hamburgers, preprepared formulas and letting him drink coca cola and other artificial stuff full of con-servants, colorants and other additives.


For me always had huge reason the motto:

Healthy food means healthy life.

And I got so shocked about the news which brought Jamie Oliver about the results of USA kids. I knew that people over there are not eating properly but that even kids can not recognize different vegetable feels sad. They are taken out of the real world and they have to face the artificial created stuff which is considered as real. I am shocked how much money are spend for brainwashing customers about dietary advantages of eating fast food, if everybody can see and there were proved the unhealthy effects of eating it.

I am big fan of Jamie Oliver and his wish about better dietary for our kids because I can see how much good food influence the quality of our lives.

So I can strongly recommend to watch this video and think what we are eating in our homes and which kind of food is served to our the most loved once.

What do you think. Is he right? I think that YES!

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St. Valentine’s day spend in Caracas

Day of lovers and friendship (El Dia del Amor y la Amistad)

The day of Lovers in Venezuela especially in Caracas was very lovely and “tropically hot” day. in general there is nothing new about the celebration, you can see couples around, families and friends who gather together to celebrate this nice and lovely day.

We made very nice time for us as family. First we went to great Italian restaurant where we totally overate ourselves which satisfied our primary needs. And in the afternoon after our darling fell asleep we escaped with Carlos from our home and went to wonderful little bar with wonderful view to whole Caracas. We picked bottle of white semi dry Argentinian vine and enjoyed Valentines delicious menu. I have to confess that I had great time. Calm, fulfilling and the most important loving.

Because saint Valentine is also the day of friendship we went to visit our friend for whom we borrowed (learn stole :) ) balloons  in the shape of flowers from some party we passed by to made him surprise.

Motto: To Love and Be loved is the biggest treasure in our life. Appreciate, Love and let the others to love you.


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Carnival in Venezuela

Carnival celebration

By simple words I would describe Carnival in Latin America such as the dance and fun  of colors. I remember that in Czech Republic we do have something similar called “Masopust” the time when we get dressed and have fun on the street. In case Of Latin America was the tradition brought by missionaries from Spain and Italy. But the big advantage of local celebration is weather. Here we do not have to think how the weather will be and that”s why which kind of customs we should choose. Here is such grate weather and conditions that you can let your imagination run and create any kind of customs for yourself.

The Carnival is celebrated in the two levels. One is by adults which remained in its pure quality only in Brasil, where people get basically naked and dance on the street their souls out and sweat blood :) . In Venezuela and other neighboring countries they stopped to celebrate carnival in such a spectacular way because of robberies and steeling.  Adults usually celebrate with their friends in the beach. Take a drinks and have fun in the sea side. The colorful way of celebrating carnival remained only for the kids. It is big fun to see on the streets and shopping molls different fairy tales characters who interact with kids and make them laugh. Nearly every part of city Caracas prepared carnival celebration with games and performances for kids. We have visited municipality Chacao which always keeps nice and wild celebrations. As you can see Edie was enjoying his time with another kids as we were.

Edie was trapped by Mickey’s

Edie was totally amazed by the amount of masks around him

Edie and his new friends

Carnival advice: Enjoy your life, it is short and there are many things to do and many dreams to achieve. Do not waste the only ultimate and limited gift which was given to us when we were born. So let’s play, dance and make our life colorful!

Take this post also as inspiration for possible masks creation for your child.

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